Welcome, Cindy.
I have to confess one thing: I don't feel totally OK with the way of thinking of fans of any sport, specially serious fans.
The more serious they are, the more awkward I feel about their attitudes, men or women, no offense intended, allow me to explain.
My point here is that sports are games, originally children games, they are to be enjoyed, they're for your amusement.
Simple: I don't remember if it was Calvin or Charlie Brown who once described a rant by his grandpa about how cartoons of old were better than the ones of today. In the end Calvin (or Charlie Brown) says something like: "Grandpa takes the funnies pretty seriously."
That's what I don't like of the way of thinking of most, if not all fans: they take a
game pretty seriously.
Besides, they (most of them) only watch the sport on TV.
So, my advice: do not consider yourself a fan of any sport. If you like a sport, go to the field (or the track) and practice it. Then, you'll have your
own fans. Hopefully, you'll have fans belonging to all of the five or six sexes that nowadays exist.
Let's pick randomly any person in the street: for example, me. Once every blue moon I am able to put together the money to pay for one hour of karting. So, if you compare my budget with the one of Ferrari, it's about 1 millionth or less. We're talking of 100 dollars per year I spend vs at least 100 million dollars for Maranello.
However, I have three fans. Most of them are my relatives (100% of them are actually my children, that's 3 of 3). My wife is
not a fan, but I'm working on it.
If you compare my fan club with the tifosi, I might have a greater return in terms of dollars per fan. Ferrari needs to amass 3 million tifosi to reach my amazing results: I make a meager investment of 33 dollars per fan per year. Of course, I'm not taking in account the expenses I made years ago on gloves, boots, helmet, firesuit and ribs protector, but FIAT also contributes to Ferrari budget and nobody complains.
So far, I have fans of two sexes only and I quietly pray to the Universe for the statu quo to be maintained, in terms of gender. I have TWICE as many female fans as male fans (I have two daughters and one son).
Finally, if you take my advice and jump into the track, you could even try to have your own pit-boys
and make your own jokes on Belatti.